My boyfriend and I have this caring thing all backwards and inside out?

wow, thats exactly how i treated my girl, haha. i started to feel really stressed also. what you have to do is just like think about yourself, but also about your guy. like if you have plans, dont cancel, but offer to do something with him the next day. or if he wants your candy bar (i know, very random), just like share half. btw those are examples of what i do ;)