Feminists say nurturing and caring of women is a result of social influence do you agree with it?.?

when considering animals and primitive human societies females do child caring.female body also be created for it but feminists say women should reject household work and childbearing .i do not say women should e limited for it.i know one of the male feminist who fought against patriarch and wrote novels on feminism .he married a women who is the same. they met when they working in a certain N.G.O thereafter a women rejected all the work in house the man agreed he did everything .she gave birth to a child she rejected childbearing man had to accompany his mother to look after the child .he go where she want to go she sleeps with men but i did not see it therefore i can not confirm it .however she abandoned him unfairly she destroyed him she did not care him she say it is the feminism